Can you believe that it’s almost 2016 and pick up lines are still a thing? Even when you decide to make the jump over to paid dating sites, nearly all offer one-month memberships — so you are never trapped to any commitment or cost obligations lasting longer than 30 days. If you’re serious about finding a soulmate, not just a one-night-stand, don’t use this kind of language until you know it’s welcome. When I told my friends from home about…